Your strategy is ready. Your patterns aren’t. One stuck pattern, six one-to-one sessions over three weeks (three deep sessions and three short integration check-ins), and a score on day 1 and day 21 so you can see the change.
Who it is for
- Founders and owners in a growth phase
- Sales, commercial and operations leaders under target pressure
- Engineers and specialists stepping into leadership
- Leaders in aviation, finance, energy and tech, where a wrong call is expensive
Patterns we work on
- Postponing the big decision and overthinking it at 2 a.m.
- Avoiding the hard conversation with a partner, investor or team member
- Over-control: everything still runs through you
- Saying yes when you mean no, until the tank runs empty
- Freezing or over-preparing before pitches, negotiations and board meetings
How the 21 days work
- Week 1 – Map. An even deeper 75-minute session to map the situation where you get stuck and the single trigger that switches the pattern on, plus a 30-minute check-in. You leave with a one-page Pattern Map and your day-1 score.
- Week 2 – Reset. A 75-minute session using business constellations and guided inner work to change how you respond, without retelling your whole history, plus a 30-minute check-in as you test it under real pressure.
- Week 3 – Lock in. A 75-minute session to review what changed in real situations and how to spot the pattern early next time, plus a final 30-minute check-in. You leave with your day-21 score and a 60-day plan.
You don’t have to tell me everything
The process can run “blind”. You answer a few key questions, and the details of a sensitive situation stay with you. Executives use this when the issue involves board members, investors, partners or family.
The method
Every business runs on two currents. The surface current is strategy, targets and the org chart. The undercurrent is loyalties, unspoken rules and old habits, and that is where most stuck patterns live. I work on it with business constellations (trained in Facilitating Business Constellations with Martijn Meima, Intuition in Business), guided inner work, and 18 years of leading commercial teams across 70+ countries.
New to constellations? Read What Is a Business Constellation? A Plain-English Guide for Leaders.
When I was very stressed, one of his [processes] helped me get a 2 years plan in a 40 minute meeting.
Adrian Harabulă, Senior DevOps & Platform Engineer
Investment
- Pattern Diagnostic: 60 minutes, written Pattern Map within 24 hours. €190 + VAT, fully credited if you join the Reset within 14 days.
- 21-Day Pattern Reset: 6 sessions (3 × 75-minute deep sessions + 3 × 30-minute integration check-ins), WhatsApp support between sessions, day-1 and day-21 scoring. €1,450 + VAT.
- Refund guarantee: if after the first session you don’t see a clear pattern and a plan, I refund you in full.
Already sure? Enrol in the 21-Day Pattern Reset directly and I’ll email you within 24 hours to schedule your six sessions.
Who this is not for
People looking for therapy, motivational talks or lifestyle coaching, and early-stage founders still validating their idea. This is leadership performance coaching, not therapy or medical treatment. Sessions are online, confidential and never recorded.